Sex and Intercourse

At first glance you’d think they were synonymous. But not in my book. Yes they are connected, kind of like two sides of the same coin. Sex is a physical act, its the physical act of two bodies coming together as one. Intercourse on the other hand is the exchange of the thoughts, personality, and soul between two entities. Intercourse occurs during sex, but not all intercourse is in the physical. Sexual intercourse was designed by G-d not only for the purpose of child birth but also as a means for man and women to enjoy one another physically as they communicate(thoughts, characteristics, experiences) and share of each others being on levels beyond the perception of the five senses.

Our culture either immaturely views sex as taboo/sin or it immaturely views it as some form of a cheap recreational activity(societal schizophrenia). The physical act of sex is powerful when it mirrors G-d and the creation process. G-d spoke his word(word=seed=sperm) into the womb of nothingness and gave birth to what we call our world. In genesis chapter 2, again G-d impregnated Man who came from the dust with his breath(spirit) causing us to become a life breathing spirit. Intercourse with G-d always impregnates us with new life.

Often we take sex and distort it. We do this by our ignorance. We have no idea as a people whats taking place during the act of sex. Yeah I’m talking about it S.E.X, its whats happening daily. If G-d made(impregnated/transferred himself) us in his Image and his Likeness through intercourse what do you think is happening when man and woman are sexually intimate. There’s a transfer of thoughts and experiences from the soul every time based upon where the two individuals are in themselves whether negative or positive. Because women are primarily designed to be receivers(absorbers,who cultivate and give birth to new life both spiritual and physical) they take on the spirit of the ones their with. I have this belief, I believe that there are no sorry, trifling, worthless women. Why, because I have never seen a woman who showed signs of these traits who didn’t receive them from some man whether it was her father, brother, friend, or what ever. Behind any seemingly sorry woman, there’s always a man(Impregnator/giver)! Anytime I see women and they view of men as dogs, cheaters, liars, immature, insecure, egotistical, fearful, etc I know that it was one of us or many of us that has made them feel this way whether through interaction(intercourse) or through sex(intimate physical intercourse).

Now I know some will say that to them sex is just sex, and it is, but there’s more going on whether you deny it or not. We have all hung out with close friends finding ourselves picking up traits from each other, how much more of this is going on during the physical sex act. I’m only pointing this out because across the board many of us sleep with people who we do not really know. I’m not even talking about STD’s right now(we all know about that), I’m talking about the spiritual imprinting on our souls that takes place when we share bodies. We’ve all been in the presence of depressed people and felt their depression upon us. When you sleep with an insecure person it affects you, it affects your self-esteem, if its a lustful person you’ll feel degraded, if they’re immature you’ll feel moody(unstable), if weak you’ll feel fragile, if indecisive then unsure, if hateful you’ll feel unloved. Now reread that sentence and think about those(maybe yourself) who you know have engaged in frivolous sexual intercourse and see if the characteristics match.

Sexual intercourse is spiritual! Its powerful, not only can it lead to the birth of a child but it also gives birth to new thought patterns within us from our partners. And if one individual or both are not mature and aware of the power of sexual intercourse then confusion and illusion will be what becomes of both. That’s why there are so many women who are callous, desperate,lustful, unsatisfied, unfulfilled, and uncertain about themselves. That’s why there are so many men who are egotistically deceived(believing that they’re pleasuring women and having no clue), lustful, insensitive, indecisive, inconsiderate, fearful, imbalanced, disrespectful, and uncertain about themselves.

True sexual intercourse begins with an individuals state of mind. It begins with commitment(a mature agreement/covenant between man and woman). If a man is truly connected if he truly knows a woman then intercourse takes place before you ever touch a woman. It begins with the woman’s heart and the mind. True intercourse is when you are always setting the mood without ceasing. Its when a man wakes up early to fix his woman breakfast, its when he calls his woman at work to let her know he’s thinking about her, its conversation sometimes when he don’t feel like it, its when he cuts off his favorite show to let her know that nothing comes before her. Simply put its the sharing of your being through fervent consideration of your loved one. From a man’s perspective I believe that sexual intercourse is about a man sacrificing all of his negative self(selfishness, insecurity, stubbornness, etc) in order to sexually and emotionally please and fulfill the one we’re with. If this were done then women who are reflectors of what men project, they would only absorb and reflect the best in us(our G-d nature), inwardly transforming the thoughts and soul of both. When man and woman truly experience intercourse on this level they connect so deeply that they begin to hear and know each others thoughts and feelings as clearly as spoken words(seriously). I mean, is this not what G-d does with us through his spirit. Does he not give us the best of himself(his word, his presence) for us to give birth and share with others. Why should we do any less, whether it be through sexual intercourse or our spiritual intercourse with people.

The sexual urge is strong and its natural, its origins lie in our true desire to intimately reconnect with our G-d who is our source. We seek the opposite sex because they represent the missing side of us which G-d uses to reveal Himself and our own true natures. In the book of Genesis many people believe that it says that G-d took Eve from Adams rib, it does not. The Hebrew word which was translated as rib is actually “side” as in the other side or other half. This is why we posses such a strong desire to connect with the opposite sex this is why were so preoccupied and fascinated with one another. We’re looking for our other half, we’re all searching to be completed.

Peace

Jamil

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